So you’re good friends with a woman, but over time developed feelings for her. Now you’re wondering what you can do to get her to like you and accomplish the unthinkable: get out of the friend zone.
I’m going to tell you something and you need to wrap your mind around this: by trying to “make” a woman like you, all you will accomplish to is to create resistance instead of attract. With almost everything in this world, if the desire for someone (or something) isn’t already there, you’ll be fighting an uphill battle trying to get them to want him.
Your job is to attract her, not to convince her that she likes you. There’s a very fine line between the two.
If this is the case, then what’s the right way to “create her desire” for you then?
Some people might not like what I’m going to say, but I have to be blunt: you’re going to need to make some changes to yourself.
You don’t have to completely reinvent yourself. All you need to do is to adopt some of the qualities that she already desires in a man.
I cover these qualities in my booklets (they’re free — have you downloaded your copies yet?), but in a gist, some of them include:
- Desired by other women…
- Embraces his own sexuality…
- Unafraid to seize opportunities…
- Willingness to walk away…
- An unshakable confidence in himself…
…Just to name a few. The best part of it all is that you can still be yourself; albeit a little touched-up with big improvements.
You never have to “create desire” in a woman. The traits above are universal to 95% of all women — they all want men with these traits. Once you develop these qualities in yourself, half the battle is already won.
While others in your place are trying to “convince” be one of the few who realize that it’s about “attraction.” You will become irresistible not just with the woman you’re trying to get out of the friend zone with, but also with others. Think about this long and hard, and as soon as you really internalize this concept, watch yourself mold into a magnet that attracts the woman you really want.
(If you still haven’t gotten your free books, I highly suggest you do so now. It’ll probably be the most important books you’ll read that will help you get out of the friend zone.)
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Get Out Of The Friend Zone